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Under the Waves

When something new feels too big

The sea, a new food, a new playground: some children need more time. In this story your child meets the big sea one tiny step at a time, toes first, and is always allowed to step back. Nobody rushes them, and they get there in the end.

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Helps with

Trying new things

Trying new things: going at your own pace when something feels big, cold or unfamiliar.

The tool your child practises in the story

Toes first

Split a new thing into tiny steps, from the smallest to the biggest, and say "toes first" before the first one. Your child decides when to take the next step, and stepping back is always allowed. It works for the sea, a bath, a new food or a new playground. Near water, always stay within arm's reach.

Page 26: For grown-ups. Every book ends with a page for you: what the story is about, how to talk about it, questions to ask and how to use the tool.

For grown-ups

What this story is about

The sea feels big and cold, and your child is not sure about it, even though there are stripy fish out there to see. A friendly turtle shares a small secret, "toes first", and your child tries the water in tiny steps, steps back when it is too much, goes back in to rescue a floating bucket and, in the end, chooses to look under the waves. The fear does not vanish: the child is brave with it, and passes the secret on.

Three ways to talk about it

  • Name the feeling without hurrying it: "The water felt cold and big. It makes sense you wanted to step back."
  • Let your child set the pace. Stepping back is part of the plan, not a failure.
  • Notice each small step out loud: "You put your toes in. Then your ankles. You did that."

Three questions to ask

  • How did the water feel the first time it touched your toes?
  • What did you do when the bucket floated away?
  • Is there something new you would like to try with "toes first"?

Practise the tool together: Toes first

Split a new thing into tiny steps, from the smallest to the biggest, and say "toes first" before the first one. Your child decides when to take the next step, and stepping back is always allowed. It works for the sea, a bath, a new food or a new playground. Near water, always stay within arm's reach.

If your child's fear of water or of new things is very strong, lasts for weeks, or gets in the way of play and daily life, it is worth talking to your paediatrician or a child psychologist.

An invented child reads the book in bed while a parent's hand turns the page

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  • Every book is checked page by page before it's printed.
  • Printed in Europe on thick silk paper.
  • A hardcover built to last, for years of bedtime stories.

Look inside

Twelve illustrated spreads: the picture on the left, the story on the right. These sample pages show an invented child called Amara.

  • Amara holds a red bucket on the beach while a woman spreads out a towel beside the sea.

    Amara stood on the warm sand, holding the little red bucket very tight. Inside it: a pair of blue goggles, just in case. Out in the shallows, something flashed. Yellow. Stripy. Gone! "A fish! I want to see it close." But the sea was so big. It went whoosh, whoosh, all the way to the sky.

  • "Toes first," said Amara, and dipped them in. Cold! Back they came. Little Turtle just waited, blowing little bubbles. Breathe in. Breathe out. "Toes first." This time, the toes stayed. Wiggle, wiggle. The cold turned cool, then almost nice. "I did toes!" Then something tickled.

  • And there it was: a whole sparkly world! Stripy fish darted by, zip, zip, zip. Sunlight wiggled on the sand. Little Turtle swam past, upside down, showing off. Then one little fish swam right up to the goggles and looked in. Nose to nose! Up popped Amara, splashing and spluttering and laughing. "I saw them! One looked at ME!"

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Questions

Is it only about the sea?

The story happens at the beach, but the tool (toes first: tiny steps, your child decides) works for baths, new foods, new places and new people too.

Does the story push my child to be brave?

No. Stepping back is allowed on every page. The point is that your child sets the pace and still gets there.

What is on the page for grown-ups?

How to split a new thing into tiny steps, questions to ask, how to practise toes first, and when to talk to a paediatrician or child psychologist.