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The Little Volcano

When the big feelings erupt

A tower falls, and suddenly your child is all fists and frowns. This story shows anger as a normal feeling, gives your child a way to cool down (volcano breaths) and words to say what happened, and ends with making things right together.

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Helps with

Big feelings

Anger and big feelings: naming them, cooling them down and making things right again.

The tool your child practises in the story

Volcano breaths

Put both hands on the tummy. Breathe in and feel the volcano fill up, then breathe out slowly and let the lava cool down, three times. Then say the feeling in words: "I feel angry because...". Do it alongside your child at first; later a gentle "Volcano breaths?" is often enough.

Page 26: For grown-ups. Every book ends with a page for you: what the story is about, how to talk about it, questions to ask and how to use the tool.

For grown-ups

What this story is about

When a tower falls or playtime ends, your child feels a little volcano rumble inside. The story treats anger as a normal feeling to name and cool down, never as something to be ashamed of. Volcano breaths do not make the feeling vanish; they make room to think, and your child works out what to do next. It ends with the feeling still there but calmer, the kicked block back where it belongs, and the tower built again.

Three ways to talk about it

  • Name it calmly before anything else: "You're really angry. Your tower fell down." Naming a feeling helps it settle.
  • Separate the feeling from the action: anger is always allowed; hitting or breaking things is not, and you will help stop it.
  • Practise volcano breaths together when everyone is calm, so they are ready when the rumble comes.

Three questions to ask

  • What makes your little volcano rumble?
  • Where do you feel it in your body: hot cheeks, tight fists, stompy feet?
  • When your volcano has cooled down, what helps you make things right again?

Practise the tool together: Volcano breaths

Put both hands on the tummy. Breathe in and feel the volcano fill up, then breathe out slowly and let the lava cool down, three times. Then say the feeling in words: "I feel angry because...". Do it alongside your child at first; later a gentle "Volcano breaths?" is often enough.

If your child's anger is very frequent or intense, lasts a long time, or often leads to hurting themselves or others, it is worth talking to your paediatrician or a child psychologist.

An invented child reads the book in bed while a parent's hand turns the page

Made with care

Every book is checked page by page before it's printed.

  • Every book is checked page by page before it's printed.
  • Printed in Europe on thick silk paper.
  • A hardcover built to last, for years of bedtime stories.

Look inside

Twelve illustrated spreads: the picture on the left, the story on the right. These sample pages show an invented child called Eva.

  • Eva angrily kicks colorful toy blocks scattered across the playroom floor.

    CRASH! Blocks everywhere: under the sofa, behind the curtain, one inside a slipper. And deep inside Eva, something began to rumble. Rumble... RUMBLE! Hot cheeks. Tight fists. Stompy feet. It felt like a little volcano, about to erupt. "NOOO!" One foot kicked a blue block, hard. It shot across the floor, out of the open garden door, and landed on the doorstep. BONK.

  • Lava put both little hands on her tummy. "Breathe in, fill it up." Her tummy went round as a balloon. "Breathe out, cool it down." Whoooosh. A long, slow breath, all the way out. "Three of those," said Lava, "and the lava goes from boiling... to bathwater." Then two hands went onto a very rumbly tummy. And in went a breath.

  • So, together, they built a volcano tower. A big, fat bottom. A smaller middle. A little pointy top. Lava nudged one tiny block into place with her nose. "Wobble test!" A poke. Not one wobble. Last of all came the blue block: the kicked one, the bath-boat one. It went right on the very top. Taller than the door handle, and a long way from the door.

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Questions

Does the story say anger is bad?

No. It says every feeling is allowed, and that hurting people or things is not. It shows what to do with the feeling instead.

How do volcano breaths work?

Hands on the tummy, breathe in to fill the volcano, then breathe out slowly to let the lava cool down, three times. The story practises it on several pages, and the last page explains it for you.

What is on the page for grown-ups?

How to talk about anger, questions to ask, how to practise volcano breaths together, and when to talk to a paediatrician or child psychologist.